What Indians Should Stop Doing: Littering and Family Expectations
India is a country with a rich cultural heritage, and many traditions are deeply rooted in its social fabric. However, some outdated practices can harm the environment and perpetuate inequality. In this article, we'll discuss two significant issues that Indians should immediately address: littering, particularly plastic waste, and the unequal financial expectations placed on sons versus daughters.
Littering: A Growing Menace
One of the biggest environmental threats in India is littering, especially in the form of single-use plastics like cups, plates, and cutlery. This problem is particularly prevalent at picnic spots, weddings, and other social gatherings. These items are not only unsightly but also pose a serious threat to the environment and wildlife. It takes centuries for these plastics to break down, and their impact is cumulative. If this reckless behavior continues, it may lead to irreversible damage to our planet.
The convenience of disposable plastics is often the driving force behind their misuse. However, the cost to our environment is too high. Each year, millions of tons of plastic waste are generated, much of which ends up in our oceans, harming marine life and disrupting ecosystems. The time has come for individuals and communities to take responsibility and make conscious choices to reduce waste and protect the environment.
Unequal Financial Expectations: Breaking Down Barriers
Another important issue in Indian society is the unequal distribution of financial burdens between sons and daughters. This inequality is often perpetuated through family expectations and social norms. In many households, sons are expected to support their parents financially and take care of their siblings, while daughters are often encouraged to prioritize their education and individual independence.
A case in point is the situation described in the scenario: a brother and a sister, both educated and working in the software industry, face vastly different expectations from their parents. The brother is expected to support not only himself and his wife and children but also to take care of his sister's expenses, save for her wedding, and ensure that his relationship with his sister-in-law is amicable. On the other hand, the sister is often encouraged to save her earnings, be financially independent, and prioritize her own well-being.
This imbalance can create immense pressure on the son, who is tasked with supporting an extended family unit. The expectation that he should provide for everyone, including siblings, parents, and in-laws, can be overwhelming. Given that these expectations are sometimes forced upon children regardless of whether they have been given equal opportunities, it is time for a paradigm shift. It is unfair to place the bulk of the financial responsibility on one child, especially when both sons and daughters have had the same opportunities for education and career development.
The solution lies in recognizing that both sons and daughters should contribute to the financial well-being of the family equally. This approach promotes fairness and ensures that the financial burden is shared more equitably. It also allows daughters to make their own financial decisions and live according to their individual goals and priorities without feeling the pressure to provide for others.
The Case of Diwali Celebrations
Diwali, one of the most important festivals in India, is also a significant opportunity for reflecting on our cultural practices and their impact. While bursting crackers is a longstanding tradition, it has become a contentious issue. Despite being educated and aware of the environmental impact, some individuals continue to disregard these concerns and treat public spaces as personal property.
Due to their carelessness, many animals lose their lives or suffer due to unexploded crackers left behind. This year during Diwali, the issue was brought to the forefront when innocent animals were injured or killed. It is imperative for all Indians to consider the consequences of their actions and adopt a more responsible and humane approach to celebrating this festival.
I, personally, do not burst crackers, and neither do I approve of senseless waste. However, I respect those who do so responsibly. It is essential to educate people about the importance of safety and animal welfare while celebrating this joyous occasion. A request to those who do burst crackers: please be mindful of your surroundings and ensure that the environment remains clean and safe for all.
By addressing these two critical issues—littering and unequal financial expectations—we can contribute to a more sustainable and equitable society. It is time for us to reflect on our actions and make positive changes for the betterment of our country and the planet.