Letting Go of Trump: Healing from the Pain of a Lost Election

Every election ends with some individuals experiencing both victory and defeat. For many, the 2020 election resulted in profound disappointment and even hurt. Sharing my own youthful heartbreak might help you understand the deep emotions and awakenings that come from letting go of someone or something you once held dear.

As a teenager, I had a special connection with the girl named Alicia Collins. She was beautiful, athletic, and seemed to be the perfect match for me. I believed in her love for me and even fantasized about it, attending soccer games and imagining scenarios where she reciprocated my feelings. However, as painful as it was, I eventually learned that Alicia and I were merely two individuals who never resonated with each other. It was challenging to accept the truth but eventually, I had to let her live her life without burdening her with my fantasies.

The Personal and the Political: Comparisons and Contrasts

There are parallels between personal and political lives that can offer insight. For many, Donald Trump has become more than just a political figure; he has become a symbol of personal identification and emotional security. Supporting Trump can make one feel a sense of victory and belonging. In a broader sense, it can symbolize feeling valued and understood in an often unpredictable and unforgiving world.

A Symbol of Victory and Belonging

Supporting Trump can make you feel like a 'winner' in various aspects of life. Having a supportive family, a fulfilling job, adequate resources, and loving pets are all quintessential components of a happy life. Each of these can elevate your self-esteem and provide a sense of accomplishment and contentment. However, it’s essential to recognize that these victories are no less valid than those associated with Trump's political stance.

The Truth About the 2020 Election

Despite the fervent beliefs of many Trump supporters, the facts surrounding the 2020 election are clear. Donald Trump did not win the election. The sheer volume of evidence and the decisiveness of the judiciary further confirm this. Over 60 judges, including those appointed by Trump himself, reviewed countless claims but found no merit in any of them. The insistence on the false claims only highlights the depth of Trump’s defeat and his inability to accept the reality of the outcome.

Choosing Freedom Over Fantasy

Letting go of cherished beliefs, even those deeply rooted in personal or political affiliations, can be challenging but incredibly liberating. It requires resilience and a willingness to adapt to new realities. For me, choosing to let go of my fantasies about Alicia Collins led to personal growth and the realization of a better life. Similarly, for those who identify closely with Trump, moving past these beliefs can bring about immense freedom and new opportunities.

Practical Steps to Move On

The process of moving on from strong attachments and firmly held beliefs is multifaceted. Here are some steps that can facilitate this transition:

Examine your core values and beliefs to understand which ones align with your newfound perspective. Seek support from friends, family, or professionals to help navigate the emotional terrain. Engage in new activities and hobbies to create positive experiences and build new memories. Stay informed and fact-based to counteract misinformation and conspiracy theories. Reflect on the lessons learned and the personal growth that comes from experiencing change and loss.

Ultimately, letting go of the past, whether it be a personal love or a political belief, is a journey towards a more fulfilling and realistic future. It allows one to embrace new possibilities and strengthen their resilience in the face of challenges.

Final Reflections

For those who may be struggling to let go, remember that healing is a gradual process. It’s okay to feel pain and sorrow; it’s a natural part of the journey. Sharing your experiences and emotions with others can also provide relief and support. Moving forward with a clear and liberated mindset can lead to a happier and more meaningful life, both personally and politically.