Is 17 Too Late to Be Confirmed in High School?

There is no such thing as “too late” or “too old.”

Personal testimonies from Catholics across different ages show that getting confirmed at age 17 is not only feasible but also quite common. My experience as a Catholic brought me to confirmation at that age, which is just about average for those raised in the Catholic faith. While it is highly unusual for anyone to be confirmed earlier than 16 in my diocese, the belief remains that age should not be a limiting factor in one’s spiritual journey.

Testimonies from the Catholic Community

One individual mentioned that one of their brothers was confirmed in his thirties, emphasizing that adults of all ages can receive sacraments such as baptism and First Communion. They also recall a personal experience teaching a sacrament prep class for children and adults with special needs. The class included a student who was 37 years old and who made his First Communion and subsequently his Confirmation. This individual had been attending Mass with his parents for years, and through a long wait, he finally understood his sanctuary and could confide in his parents:

"He had waited a long time. As he left the church after his 1st Communion smiling he said loudly ‘Cristo! Cristo!’"

This story highlights the significance of one's spiritual journey and the timing of religious rituals, as they are deeply personal and determined by individual understanding and grace rather than societal norms.

Guidance for Confirmations

For those who are close to the age of majority and have been seeking confirmation, taking the following steps is highly recommended:

Consult with your priest or the faith formation director: They can assess the amount of catechesis you have received and provide guidance on which class is best for you, whether it is for high schoolers or adults. Providing accurate information will help the church community support you in your journey. Consider joining an RCIA class (Rite of Christian Initiation for Adults) or a similar program: These classes are designed to help new members learn about the faith and prepare for the sacraments. If you have significant catechetical background, you might be placed in a class suitable for your needs. Reflect on your spiritual journey: Think about why you are seeking confirmation and what it means to you. This reflection will help you appreciate the significance of the sacrament and prepare you for the commitment it entails. Talk to your family and friends: Sharing your intentions with those close to you can provide support and understanding from your community. Additionally, they may help you with any questions or concerns you might have.

Ultimately, the key is to approach the process with openness and a genuine desire to deepen your relationship with God. The belief remains that age should not be a barrier to spiritual growth and the pursuit of faith.

Final Thoughts

There is no such thing as "too late" to be confirmed. Whether you are 37, 17, or older, the journey to faith is ongoing and personal. Engage with your community, seek guidance from religious leaders, and embrace the beauty of faith.